Wednesday, December 31, 2008

the year in review (you knew this was coming)

Everybody else was doing it, so I figured I'd come up with my own. Isn't peer pressure great? (kidding, kidding)

So, 2008. This time last year, I had just discovered NC.com, and I lurked. Oh, did I lurk. I was a lurking MASTER. I went to the drugstore and randomly picked a product that said 'curl' on it: Garnier Curl Styling Cream (or something to that effect). I had okayish hair - straight, and some nice curls at the bottom. In February, I decided to chop off my hair, and the results were disasterous. So, I committed and joined NaturallyCurly.com, asking questions about products until I found some good ones. I was pretty lucky that the first products I tried are still working fabulously for me today.

My hair grew and grew, all the way to BSL straight, and I got some red highlights in June. I am blessed with very fast-growing hair, and my hair grew all the way to waist-length straight by last week. I went to a reputable stylist this time (no gum-chewing there) and chopped off a looot of my hair, so it's a little bit past shoulder-length straight.

I plan to enter the new year with a more healthy view of curls. I used to straighten religiously, then I gave it up cold turkey. I think I'll still straighten a little (when I'm bored) but DT after, grow out my highlights, and get regular trims. I think I'm finally at a place with my hair that is fantastic. Before, I was fanatic - a little crazy, actually. I constantly was checking my hair, tying it up, hairspraying, so worried about one hair out of place. I've been through a lot and realized there's more to life than hair.

So of course, I'll hang out on CurlTalk and freak out about bad hair days (who doesn't?), but in moderation. I'm at peace with my curls, and hopefully by next year, all of the crazy freaking out will be a distant memory.

Happy New Year!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Curly!


I know, I'm being kind of a pic whore, but OMG. MAH HAYER. Curly. I think it's pretty, and NOT supershort, like I feared. My bangs are kinda annoying and I can't side part it, but it's so light and airy.

Whoo!

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Oh. Em. Gee. (Squeeeee!!)

('nother personal post - but stick around! I look cute!)

For comparison - looong. Damaged, highlighted.

Weird look? Check. Bangs? Check.

Overly flippy ends? Totally check, and I rock 'em. HELLA SHORT? Yeah, totes check.
It's still a good length - a lil past shoulder-length. It's just so...flowy. I can flip my whole head of hair. OMG.
Squeeeee! I love my hair! I can't wait to see how it looks curly.
Byes!

Natural Crimps

A couple nights ago, I didn't feel like jacking up my neck with applying upside-down, scrunching out water, plopping, scrunching out the crunch...and I was feeling kinda lazy too. So I went to my ultimate no-effort styler: the french braid!




After I showered, I took a few blobs of leave-in and scrunched in right-side-up, and did the same with some gel. I scrunched and squeezed out as much water as I could with my T-shirt, and then got to braiding. Usually I take a dab of gel to help with frizzies, but...I forgot, so excuse any frizz.

After I braided, I took my plopping tee and squeezed the braid again to get out as much water as possible. I fell asleep after an hour. When I woke up, wa-la! Crimpy, dry hair. If I had fallen asleep immediately after braiding, I'd have a half-hour of damp waves.



Ooh. Aah. (Also, notice how DANG LONG my hair is. Yeah. Chopping it off soon. AAAAAAH!!)

I like changing it up a little with waves (so pretty!) and it's an awesome look. Woo!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Some help selecting products

I'm not into the science aspect of hair very much - plenty of other bloggers have great explanations that can help you out. I do understand the basics, however, and so I have an idea of what's going on.

For anyone new to the curly girl method or NC.com, I really feel for you. There is SO MUCH info and it's very possible to drown under all the techniques and products. The General Discussion boards are great, but you need to understand the problem. That's why we don't resort to silicones - they are quick fixes. Awful in the long run.

First and formost, hair type? Means nothing. You could be 3A and use the same products as a 3C without difficulty. The only thing that I think hair types share in common are the dreaded 3A flat top and I've heard rumors of the 3B drag factor. But as for proudcts, you need to focus on something other than hair type.

People say that you should look for your hair twin, and use the products they do. I think that's great, as long as you guys are absolutely twins. You need to live in a similar area (humidity and dew point* are huge factors), have the same hair thickness, color your hair with the same brand - stalk that person. A small change can throw off the whole routine. I think there's an easier way.

First, preform a couple simple tests. Take a strand of hair and put it in a glass of water. Check it periodically. If it sinks, it's porous. If it floats to the top, it isn't. Mine sunk to the bottom, which means that my hair absorbs a lot of water. I can use hardcore, waxy products and my hair doesn't get weighed down, and I load up on protein treatments and oils to help smooth the cuticle. If your hair's porous, there are gaps that can be filled with oils to make your hair smooth. My hair soaks up conditioners like they're nothing. Crazy hair.

On the other hand, if your hair isn't porous, it's a different ballgame. You couldn't walk into my bathroom and use the products I do, because my condtioners are heavier. If you're trying to narrow down products, find a porosity twin. I think finding one ultimate hair twin doesn't work, but you can use bits and pieces. Find out what they use to help combat low/high porosity and try to find the same ingredients in a product that works with the other aspects (detailed below).

Another good test is the protein snap one. Take a "shed" hair (preferably wet), hold it at each end and stretch it. If it snaps right away, that means it needs more moisture. If it stretches a lot without snapping and doesn't "bounce back", it means you should add protein to your hair diet. What you want is hair that stretches about 20% of it's length without snapping, then goes back to its original length. If you have that, your hair is okay with protein, but make sure to keep a protein condish around in case you need it. If you want to find recs for good conditioners, do a search on the CurlTalk threads or make a thread asking for recs. But please, search first. We get a little tired of repeat threads.

On our beloved CurlTalk, we have a fabulous Deva stylist (StruttsWife) who gave us this amazing tidbit - hair type doesn't matter! Okay, I know I've already said this earlier, but she's in the business, and I figure people are more willing to trust her. Many of the products marketed today - 'color-treated', 'grey', 'blonde' - it's all marketing, to boost sales. Guess those conspiracy theorists were right - we are getting cheated.

The stuff that matters is whether your hair is fine, medium, or coarse.

Fine hair - easily flyaway, does not hold a style well. Often looks dry and brittle, but actually is most likely over-moisturized. Hair products with emollients or humectants should be avoided in favor of protein-based products.

Medium or "normal" texture hair - considered the "perfect" hair type and, if undamaged, responds well to virtually all products and services.

Coarse hair - does not bend and cannot hold a style well. Is often dry and brittle, due to an overabundance of protein. Hair products with proteins should be avoided in favor of products with emollients and humectants.

Now, you might think you have coarse hair, but just have a lot of fine hair. Grasp a hair strand firmly between your thumb and index finger near the root, then run your fingers in the direction of scalp to end. If the hair feels barely there, is very soft and feels kind of flyaway, it's fine. If it feels a bit more substantial, but is still relatively smooth, it's medium. If it feels rough to the touch, it's coarse.

I realize that this is a lot of information, but it's all insanely helpful, believe me. When I first found NC.com, I went out to my local CVS and randomly picked a product. I could have picked a worse product, and that still haunts me, so I decided to help some newbies out. If you're having trouble understanding some of the terms, just leave a comment and I'll clarify. Ingredients make up a product - if you know what your hair likes, you can have fab curls. I hope this helps!

*humidity and dew point will be covered next time.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

I have a hair commitment problem.

This isn't a helpful post (I promise, I'm experimenting soon!) so you can totes ignore if you want.

I've always been surrounded by change, and I've grown to love it. I moved around a lot when I was younger, and somehow I just began to not only to love change but...crave it. I got brown highlights two years ago, and six months ago I dyed back to my natural color (black), and then highlighted a coppery red.

In between those periods, I chopped off my hair, hated it, and amassed a quantity of hair accessories and styles to make it look better. I also used my flat iron every three days to straighten, touching up on in-between days.

Needless to say, my hair is damaged. Also needless to say, I am bored of it. I know somewhere up there in that confusing timeline, it says that I chopped off my hair and hated it, but an important thing to note is that my BFF at the time hated short hair, so I somehow coonvinced myself that my hair looked awful, plus I went to SuperCuts to get it cut, and the hairstylist? Chewed gum while washing my hair. But, I'm really interested in getting my hair cut to shoulder length, curly. My hair feels scraggly and...boring. Plus, hello, grown in highlights aren't the prettiest things on earth.

The appointment's for Wednesday.

Wish me luck.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Listy list time!

Urrrrgh.

So. Curly hair. Eptimome of awesome, right? Yeah...maybe. I know accepting yourself is great n' all, but sometimes it's the suck. Oooh, let's make a list!

Things That Rock About CG Method + Curly Hair:

1. When it's a good hair day, it's a GOOD HAIR DAY. There's bouncy and shiny and boingyness all abound, and people will stare at your hair in awe. AWE I TELL YOU AWE.

2. No need to spend three hours in a stuffy bathroom burning your fingers and your hair so it lies flat.

3. You can make hair blogs! Don't get much better than that, folks.

4. Standing out.

5. Healthier hair.

Reasons why the CG method and Curly hair are sometimes made of suck:

1. When it's a bad hair day, it's a really bad hair day. All you can do to salvage it is bun and hop no one notices the frizz.

2. Unpredictability. You could have flawless curls or a frizzy mess. It depends on what the elements of the universe are conspiring to make happen.

3. You go through a LOT of product. I have pretty long hair, but I go through an insane amount of conditioner in a week, way more than I did before.

Sigh. Yes, I know, world's tiniest violin, but still. CG isn't some miracle cure, and some days I feel like curly hair isn't twelve kinds of awesome. You just have to slave through those days to the happy, boingier ones. To all the seasoned curlies and new ones - remember, we're (I'm sorry for quoting cheesy disney channel movies) all in this together.